About Me

Name: Daniel Neff
Biography
Loading...

Create Your Own Blog Find Other Townhall Blogs

Comments

Blog Roll

 

My Book is Now Available!

My book is available for purchase on Amazon and CreateSpace.

CreateSpace:

God Said Not Yet!

Amazon:

God Said Not Yet!

Cancer: everyone has either experienced cancer or knows someone who has. It is the most feared word in the English language. I thought I was the last person who would ever get cancer, much less die from it. When cancer interrupted my life, I was a young man of 36, with a family, who was about to embark on an exciting new chapter in his life. I was preparing to go back to school to study architecture at the University of Cincinnati (fulfilling a lifelong dream of becoming an architect). When I placed my faith in God many years earlier, He promised, "I will never leave you nor forsake you." I would find out if that promise were true. From the initial diagnosis, to the time I died on the operating room table, to being faced with a (literally) life-or-death decision regarding the bone marrow transplant procedure, God never abandoned me. The doctors said my life was over, but God said, "Not Yet!"

Daniel was born in Covington, KY in December of 1963. Daniel is the third of four children born to Maurice and Sarah Neff. Daniel served in the US Air Force as an air traffic controller, worked in home construction, and spent several years helping hurting teens and families. Both as a child growing up, and since marrying his lovely south Alabama wife Linda, Daniel has lived in and traveled to many diverse and interesting parts of America. Daniel’s vast and varied experiences in life give him a point of view and writing style that appeals to a wide range of readers. Daniel was raised in a Christian home, but strayed from his faith during his teen years. He came back to faith in God in his 20s: a faith that would be integral to his successful battle with “terminal” cancer 10 years later. Daniel currently lives in Western North Carolina with his wife Linda, their son Daniel, and their Golden Retriever Johnny Bud.

Email ItEmail It | Print ItPrint It | CommentsComments (0) | TrackbacksTrackbacks (0) | Flag as offensiveFlag as Offensive

Which Ism Is the Best Ism?

Which Ism Is the Best Ism?

I wrote this blog, not from the perspective of an expert, or from a place of arrogance, but as an exercise of us learning together more about these systems. We hear many assertions being thrown around about whether we are becoming a Socialist nation, whether the President is a Socialist or Marxist, and I think most of us aren't sure what is accurate. Unless you earned a degree in Political Science, you likely only spent a couple of days on “isms” then moved on.

For starters, let us examine the definitions of each courtesy of Merriam-Webster.com

Socialism

Main Entry: so·cial·ism 
Pronunciation: \'so-sh?-?li-z?m\
Function: noun
Date: 1837
1: any of various economic and political theories advocating collective or governmental ownership and administration of the means of production and distribution of goods
2 a: a system of society or group living in which there is no private property b : a system or condition of society in which the means of production are owned and controlled by the state
3: a stage of society in Marxist theory transitional between capitalism and communism and distinguished by unequal distribution of goods and pay according to work done


Communism

Main Entry: com·mu·nism 
Pronunciation: \'käm-y?-?ni-z?m, -yü-\
Function: noun
Etymology: French communisme, from commun common
Date: 1840
1 a: a theory advocating elimination of private property b : a system in which goods are owned in common and are available to all as needed
2 capitalized a: a doctrine based on revolutionary Marxian socialism and Marxism-Leninism that was the official ideology of the Union of Soviet Socialist Republics b : a totalitarian system of government in which a single authoritarian party controls state-owned means of production c : a final stage of society in Marxist theory in which the state has withered away and economic goods are distributed equitably d : communist systems collectively


Capitalism

Main Entry: cap·i·tal·ism 
Pronunciation: \'ka-p?-t?-?liz-?m, 'kap-t?-, British also k?-'pi-t?-\
Function: noun
Date: 1877
: an economic system characterized by private or corporate ownership of capital goods, by investments that are determined by private decision, and by prices, production, and the distribution of goods that are determined mainly by competition in a free market.


So, basically, Socialism and Communism are predicated upon the elimination of private property, and the notion that results of work are equalized for all. And government controls the means of production, sets prices, wages, etc.
While the idea of the State owning and administering the economy seems like a good idea to some, this notion is fraught with fallacy. Do we really want the same entity (government), which has proven to be so inept and corrupt, running our economy? The same government which has stolen money from the Social Security fund time and time again to cover their losses in other areas; the same government which has presided over programs, Medicare and Medicaid, that have trillions in unfunded liabilities; the same government that runs the DMV; the same government that, through the Community Reinvestment Act and Fannie and Freddie, was largely responsible for the housing market collapse; the same government that has top level executives watching porn at the SEC instead of doing its designated job of regulating Wall Street.
There is something mystifying about this naïve faith some people have in government. Some people actually believe that government is by its very nature good and benevolent, always acting in the best interests of the people. This is a misguided, utopian dream that is not founded in any study of history. George Washington described government as a “necessary evil.” The founders feared a strong centralized government because they had studied history and learned that a strong centralized government always ended bad for the people. Our founding fathers created a nation unlike any ever seen on the planet. Were there some flaws, such as slavery? Certainly. But the free market capitalist system created in this nation set in motion the greatest influx of prosperity and individual standard of living in the history of man. Is it perfect? No. But a perfect system in this world is a utopian dream; it can't be achieved. The problem with Capitalism is flawed human beings; the problem with Socialism is a flawed system (Socialism).
What's wrong with Socialism? For a more in depth study on this question, I refer you to the following article on Americanthinker.com:

(http://www.americanthinker.com/2009/11/whats_wrong_with_socialism.html )

This article lays it out better than I can. My general conclusion is this: the problem with Socialism is that its intentions seem good, but its outcome is always bad. We need look no further than Greece. That country is bankrupt, and is turning to a group of other nations (including the USA) to bail them out. We are basically giving them money to continue their failed system of ever-increasing entitlements (welfare, public sector salary/benefit packages, guaranteed vacation time and early retirement age.) What happens when all the Socialist nations (including the USA if we go down that road) reach the breaking point that Greece has reached? Where does a bankrupt nation turn when everyone else is broke?
Beyond the example of Greece, we need to look back at the results of Socialism in the 20th century. While the examples from the 20th century are extreme and brutal, they must be considered, not because Socialism will necessarily lead to the extreme, but it has in some cases, and so the potential is there. As the American Thinker article points out, the brutalities committed by the Nazis and the Soviets, were partially a result of policies instituted by adherents to various forms of Socialism. Unlike a free market, where competing companies can exist side by side, for Socialism to succeed, it must be the only game in town. The brutalities committed in Russia and Germany were necessary to eliminate anyone who opposed Socialist policies. But the form of Socialism that America is marching toward, some would say, is not that brutal type of Socialism. This is true, but the possibility exists for us to end up there. I'm sure that in the early years of Nazi Germany and Communist Russia, conditions were not brutal either. In his “Road to Serfdom”, Friedrich Von Hayek asserted that in order for a system like Socialism to succeed, there must be universal acceptance. Eventually, if you cannot get everyone to accept voluntarily, you must force them to accept.
I don't think anyone would argue that President Obama's policies are full-blown Socialism, but that does not mean that his ultimate goal is not Socialism. The goal of most Socialists has always been to make the transformation bit by bit. They know that if Socialism were foisted upon a free-market Capitalist nation all at once, it would be rejected violently. But if you make the transformation in baby steps, “never letting a crisis go to waste,” as the Chicago thug Rahm Emmanuel said, it will be accepted by most people. It is the old frog-in-the-pot analogy. If you throw a frog into a pot of boiling water, it will jump out immediately, but if you put a frog in a pot of cold water, and then turn on the heat, by the time the water boils him he won't know what hit him. The water is getting very warm.
For all its faults and shortcomings, Capitalism is the best system yet devised for the individual. People have been streaming to this country from all the nations of the world for over 300 years. Why? Because America is the land of opportunity, that is why. Why is America the land of opportunity? Freedom, liberty, and independence. A major part of that freedom, liberty, and independence are the freedom to pursue the career or business that the individual desires, without cumbersome interference from government, and without the disincentive of having everything they work for taken away and given to lazy, unmotivated deadbeats. Capitalism provides that opportunity and freedom, Socialism and Communism do not. Socialism and Communism squash opportunity and initiative. Capitalism provides an atmosphere in which hard work and dedication and vision can enable a person to achieve anything; a man's (or woman's) dreams are only limited by his/her imagination. In Socialism and Communism, there is no incentive to work hard or create, because the end result for the individual is the same whether they work hard or slack off.
I am not saying that we should not have any social programs. I believe we need some form of welfare, but it should be limited and only for those who are truly helpless, not for people who are clueless. We have far too many people on public assistance who are full capable of working, but who don't want to. I believe we need a public safety net for seniors, like Social Security, to ensure that none of our elders ever have to live in squalor. However, in my opinion there should strict limitations, so that if a senior or a senior couple make $100,000 a year or have more than a million dollars in the bank, they do not collect Social Security.(Those numbers are purely arbitrary and would of course be adjusted for inflation/cost of living.) Many people would balk at this provision, because they would say, “I pay into Social Security, I should get my money back,” yet very few people balk at paying income tax that goes to paying for welfare programs for able-bodied (non-senior) adults. I believe that Social Security should be a welfare program for seniors, only going to those who have no retirement. And of course, we should have medical coverage for the poor and needy and seniors. I don't think there is much disagreement in this country that we need to take care of our poor and our elderly, but we need to apply rationality and reason. We cannot continue on a path that will bankrupt our country by funding entitlement programs for people who should be providing for themselves.
I find it humorous that wealthy celebrities are often the most vocal supporters of one type of collectivism or another. Individuals that have become wealthy in a Capitalist country bemoan the Capitalist system and wax philosophic about how wonderful it would be if everyone were guaranteed equal results for their life. Not equal opportunity for their efforts, but equal results whether they work hard or lay around all day doing nothing. I wonder if all these celebrities would really enjoy collectivism if it were instituted unilaterally tomorrow. Would Sean Penn be happy if all his money and houses and cars were taken away and put into a pool for everyone to share in? Would George Clooney be willing to surrender his $10-20 million per movie so that everyone from the lowliest extra to the biggest star got an equal cut? Would a top rap star be willing to have his “crib” taken away so that every lazy do-nothing could have a bigger house? Funny thing about collectivism, it sounds all good and benevolent in theory, but the only ones who really want it put into practice are lazy deadbeats who are not willing to work hard and make their own way.
People have not been pouring into France or Russia or Cuba or Mexico for centuries to achieve their dreams; they have been coming to America: the land of opportunity. Mexicans risk their lives to cross the southern border to come to America. Cubans risk their lives in ramshackle rafts and boats across open seas to come to America. Citizens of India, China, Japan, European and Middle Eastern countries come to America in a steady stream to work and apply for citizenship. America is still the Great Melting Pot. America is still the greatest nation on Earth: “The last best hope of man on earth.”
Barack and Michelle Obama, when Barack was running for President of the United States, could not get their fill of running down America, talking about what a downright mean country it is or how it needs to be fundamentally changed. The same mean, in-need-of-fundamental-change America in which these two African-American citizens were able to obtain law degrees from Harvard Law School, arguably the most prestigious law school in the United States, and then go on to lucrative jobs after graduation. America provided a pretty good opportunity for them; yet it seemed that all they could do was point out the flaws of their country.
President Obama and his Progressives are taking this country down a road that leads to Socialism, bankruptcy, and ruin. Americans need to wake up, realize what is happening, and get involved and turn this thing around. History will record our actions. The future does not belong to the fainthearted, but the future belongs to the brave. Will history show that we were fainthearted and that we meekly accepted the fate that progressives laid upon us, or will history show that we were brave, that we had the courage to stand up for and regain the independent republic that our founding fathers gave to us?
What will history record?
Email ItEmail It | Print ItPrint It | CommentsComments (0) | TrackbacksTrackbacks (0) | Flag as offensiveFlag as Offensive

Putting the Climate Change Debate to Rest

 

For years, starting with Al Gore, we have been hearing that the emissions from energy sources used by humans are heating the planet at an alarming rate, and if we don't reverse it, the seas are going to overflow and temperatures are going to rise to the point where life on earth will be threatened. Major news channels and the Weather Channel championed this cause every chance they got. Many politicians joined the crusade. Many teachers in public schools became environmental crusaders. And celebrities, from the music industry to Hollywood, spent more time talking about the climate than anything else. Man-Made Climate Change became a cause celebre (of course it started out as Man-Made Global Warming, but when it was shown that overall global temperatures had stopped rising, they had to change the name).

While Al Gore was telling everyone, that if we didn't reduce carbon emissions, we would likely die in a few decades, he was traveling everywhere in his private jet (an older model that is very inefficient in regards to fuel.) If Al Gore really believes what he preaches about the climate, why doesn't he take commercial flights? Why not buy a seat on a plane that is already going to be spewing all that carbon into the air.

Many celebrities fly personal jets when they travel. Harrison Ford (an outspoken critic of carbon emissions) has seven personal airplanes. When asked recently about his personal airplanes (in reference to Climate Change), he said, “I'll stop flying them when they stop.” (referring to those who deny Man-Made Climate Change.) If Harrison Ford really believes what he preaches about the climate, why doesn't he take commercial flights? Why not buy a seat on a plane that is already going to be spewing all that carbon into the air.

President Obama talks about Man-Made Climate Change in alarming terms, yet he took a trip last fall to Copenhagen to lobby for the city of Chicago to host the 2016 Olympics. The fact that the health care debate was raging and the issue of troops to Afghanistan were of the utmost priority notwithstanding, President and First Lady Obama traveled to Copenhagen, becoming the first president to personally lobby for an American city to be awarded an Olympics. I guess paying back friends in Chicago was more important than the climate, or health care, or our troops in Afghanistan.

A conference was held in Copenhagen in December 2009 to discuss Man-Made Climate Change. President Obama had to go to the conference, or did he? Did any of the nations have to travel to Copenhagen to attend this conference in person? Have these people not heard of videoconferencing? There is this wonderful technology, where everyone can meet together in real time, see and hear each other, and discuss anything in the world. No one has to fly a jet halfway around the world, then travel in a motorcade with all the requisite security, burning up untold quantities of carbon emissions along the way. I wonder what the combined carbon emissions of all the countries that attended the Climate Change Conference in Copenhagen was. Do these people not see the irony, or the rank hypocrisy? “We all need to travel to Copenhagen, from all over the world, burning up enormous amounts of carbon emissions, to meet and discuss ways to save the planet from Man-Made Climate Change!” Either all these people are really stupid, or they are lying and don't believe what they say about Man-Made Climate Change. Maybe they do believe what they say, are aware of all the carbon emissions, but have some kind of messianic complex that leads them to believe their very presence will lead to enlightenment and policies that could not be ascertained by mere videoconferencing.

The title of this article is somewhat misleading. I am not saying that the issue is settled, and that Climate Change doesn't exist, although I definitely do not believe in Man-Made Climate Change. The reason I am putting the debate to rest is this: those who are most vocal about Man-Made Climate Change, do not live in a manner that indicates they believe the things they say. “If you're not going to live green, stop telling everyone else to!”

If Al Gore really believes the planet is in peril, then he needs to fly commercially when he needs to fly, and shutter his mansion and live in a grass hut.

If all these celebrities who love to get in front of a camera and pontificate about the need to stave off Man-Made Climate Change really believe what they say, let's see them live it.

If President Obama really believes in Man-Made Climate Change and that we need to address it, why doesn't he lead by example? Isn't that what presidents do? President Obama didn't have to fly to Copenhagen to lobby for the Olympics in Chicago. President Obama could have called on all the leaders of the world to have a video-conference on climate change to reduce carbon emissions. And should someone, who believes we are bringing about the end of the world with our emissions, be flying all over the country, speaking to groups of people to drum up support for his health care bill and disparage Tea Party protestors. Can't the President ridicule (those of us who want limited constitutional government) via satellite?

What we see, time after time, is rank hypocrisy by the most vocal critics of Man-Made Climate Change. If these people really believe what they are saying, and continue to live the way they do, they are the worst of all people in regards to Man-Made Climate Change, because they are living in a way that they believe will contribute to a worsening of the problem.

Several revelations over the last six months have debunked the myth that man is causing global temperatures to rise and the climate to change catastrophically. Emails revealed that the scientific data has been manipulated. Then there was the astonishing admittance by Phil Jones, a central figure leading the Man-Made Climate Change charge, that global temperatures might very well have been warmer during medieval times. I guess that was due to the Hummers that all those knights were riding around in, while they were rescuing fair maidens and searching for the Holy Grail. Yet the Climate Gate scandal has not slowed down the rhetoric of Man-Made Climate Change alarmists. Despite these revelations, many people, including the President of the United States, are still spewing this lie of Man-Made Climate Change.

There is only one person I will listen to on Man-Made Climate Change. His name is Ed Begley, Jr. Ed Begley Jr. is an actor. He lives in a self-sufficient home powered solely by solar power, and rides a bicycles almost everywhere he goes. While I don't agree with Ed on the issue of Man-Made Climate Change, I respect him for his sincerity and commitment and therefore will listen to him when he speaks on the issue.

It would benefit all of us to be less dependent on energy. We would all save money, and the less dependent we are on foreign oil, the less vulnerable our economy would be to conflicts around the globe. However, it should be a personal choice, no government should have the power to tell us what kind of car we can drive and where we can set our thermostat. And certainly no one should be feeding us, and our children, a lie and engaging in fear-mongering in order to coerce us to go green.

Email ItEmail It | Print ItPrint It | CommentsComments (0) | TrackbacksTrackbacks (0) | Flag as offensiveFlag as Offensive

Tax Day Tea Party Speech

(This is a transcript of the speech I gave at the Tea Party in Morganton, NC on April 15, 2010.
You can view the video here:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YkhLWaN43fM

 

 

 

 

 

First, I want to thank you for giving me the opportunity to speak today.

Why are you here today?

Many of you have been involved with the Tea Party movement from the beginning. Some of you have just recently become involved. Some of you are here out of curiosity: you want to check this Tea Party thing out for yourself.

A couple of the claims, that critics of the Tea Party movement make, is that we hate government, and that we don’t want to pay any taxes.

First of all, we don’t hate government, we just want limited government that follows the constitution and derives it power from the consent of the governed. And we want representatives that listen to us and read bills and know what is in them before voting on them.

Secondly, we don’t oppose all taxes; just excessive and unnecessary taxes. Things like slapping an extra tax on tanning salons to help pay for the health care reform bill. We want to pay taxes, but only for those things that the constitution authorizes, not a bunch of unconstitutional, bloated, wasteful programs and agencies.

And we want a government that understands the American Legacy: which is, “Leaving our children a better America than the one our parents left us,” NOT saddling them with a debt they can’t repay and shrinking individual liberties.

There is a lot of speculation out there as to why Tea Partiers get involved. Let me tell you what I think is the main, driving force in the greatest grass roots movement since the American Revolution. I have an 11 year old son. Most of you have children, some of you have grandchildren. I think the reason you are involved is that you want your children and grandchildren to have the same opportunities and blessings that you had. You see the direction this country is headed, and you don’t like it, and you’re not going to sit back and let it happen anymore.

From the beginning of the Tea Party Movement, the liberal media, and many politicians have engaged in smear tactics in an effort to discredit us and discourage us. A funny thing though, everything they do to try to bring down our movement only makes it grow stronger and fans the flames of passion and discontent among those of us who want our country back.

They figured if they disparaged us, belittled us, and attacked us enough we would just…give…up.

They counted on us to run off, with our tail between our legs. Well, in the words of Ronald Wilson Reagan, THEY COUNTED WRONG!

They underestimate our heart and our resolve.

They don’t understand how important our freedom is to us.

They don’t understand how important it is to us to leave our children a better America than the one our parents left us.

They don’t realize that we will never, ever give up, until they give us back our country!

Sometimes it seems that all this legislation is not random, that there is a system designed to fundamentally change this country.

The Stimulus, Health Care Deform, Cap and Tax.

Back in the years leading up to the American Revolution, British Parliament imposed a series of laws that took power away from the Colonies and centralized it with the British Crown. The Intolerable Acts, as they came to be known, were described by Richard Henry Lee of Virginia as, "a most wicked System for destroying the liberty of America". A most wicked System for destroying the liberty of America.

The more things change, the more they stay the same.

There is a line from the Declaration of Independence, that we have all heard, hopefully:

“And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of Divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes, and our sacred Honor.”

Our quality of life is being eroded by progressives in government.

Our Fortunes, our wealth, is being taxed away at ever increasing rates to pay for out of control government spending.

Finally, our sacred honor, our reputation is constantly under attack. Maybe family members or coworkers talk about you behind your back or roll their eyes at you. To be involved in this movement, you have to be willing to pledge your reputation: your sacred honor.

But I ask you this, is your reputation more valuable to you than the country you will be leaving to your children and their children? I say NO!

Is your life, or lifestyle, more important?

Is your wealth more important?

Is there anything more important to you than leaving for your children a better…stronger….freer… America?

In closing,

Ronald Reagan, when asked what his strategy was for winning the cold war, replied very simply, “We win, they lose.”

“We win, they lose.”

It seems that we have lost the last two battles. We said, “don’t pass the stimulus bill.” They passed it anyway. We said, “don’t pass the health care bill.” They passed it anyway.

This victory will not be easy, the media is against us, many representatives have stopped listening to us, and there is a lot of work to do. But as Ronald Reagan said in one of his speeches, “we have the right to dream heroic dreams.” Our heroic dream is that we will turn this country around, it is not lost. The future does not belong to the fainthearted, it belongs to the brave. We must be brave and keep the faith.

We will win this battle! Don’t give up! Don’t ever give up!

Thank you, and God bless America!

 

Email ItEmail It | Print ItPrint It | CommentsComments (0) | TrackbacksTrackbacks (0) | Flag as offensiveFlag as Offensive

Obama on Iran

 

In regards to Iran, candidate Obama approached the issue from the false assumption that the United States just hadn't reached out to Iran. Obama asserted that if we would just extend an open hand to Iran, they would enthusiastically reach out, grab our hand, give us a big hug, and show the world how good they really are. Many people bought into this idealistic, but naive approach. People bought into the lie that Iran was only hostile towards America because of George Bush. Once Bush was out of office, and the great Barack Obama was our leader, Iran would suddenly become a peace loving nation that cared about human rights.

I guess the Iranian government’s handling of the election protests of 2009 refuted that notion.

Some have asserted that people in the Middle East hate America because of our meddling in the region, over oil, for the last 50 years; this thinking indicates an ignorance of history.

In the late 1700s and early 1800s, merchant ships were being attacked in the Mediterranean Sea, by Muslim pirates. If a nation paid protection money to the pirates, they would be spared. Initially, the American position was to pay the tribute, perhaps because it seemed preferable to fielding the naval forces that would be necessary to protect her merchant ships in the Mediterranean (after all, we had just finished fighting the Revolutionary War). When the price of these “treaties” became prohibitive, Thomas Jefferson and John Adams were sent to negotiate with Tripoli's envoy to London, Ambassador Sidi Haji Abdrahaman (or Sidi Haji Abdul Rahman Adja). Upon inquiring "concerning the ground of the pretensions to make war upon nations who had done them no injury", the ambassador replied:

It was written in their Koran, that all nations which had not acknowledged the Prophet were sinners, whom it was the right and duty of the faithful to plunder and enslave; and that every muslim who was slain in this warfare was sure to go to paradise. He said, also, that the man who was the first to board a vessel had one slave over and above his share, and that when they sprang to the deck of an enemy's ship, every sailor held a dagger in each hand and a third in his mouth; which usually struck such terror into the foe that they cried out for quarter at once.

While it is true that these pirates, and the rogue nations they represented, did not necessarily represent the religion of Islam, it is important to note the motivation for their terrorism. In two words, it was: the Koran. It was not western Imperialism. It was not Western nations occupying Muslim nations for the purpose of controlling the slave trade (which was begun by Muslims). The motivation of these Islamic extremists for carrying out terror upon innocent people was the Koran, and more specifically what they believed the Koran instructed them to do.

Many Muslims simply hate America. They hate our way of life. They hate us because of what we believe. They just hate us. In addition to other positions, Barack Obama rose to popularity spewing the misguided far-left assertion that Muslim nations hated us because of George Bush’s cowboy diplomacy. Once he became president, Obama claimed, the world would love us because we would act differently toward them. With the exception of many liberal, socialist European nations, that has not been the case. Islamic radicals hate us just as much now as they did then (when Bush was president). There is at least one difference however: When Bush was president, our enemies at the very least feared us and respected our power. Now, they see America as weak and accomadating, not as the reasonable friends that Obama envisioned they would see us as.

Iran began enriching uranium to a higher level on Tuesday (February 9, 2010), raising fears that the process could eventually be used to give the Islamic republic nuclear weapons.

Defense Secretary Robert Gates said the Obama White House has gone further than any administration to reach out to Iran, and called the move "disappointing."

There again is that false assertion that other administrations have not been diligent enough in reaching out to Iran. What this administration (and many of the ignorant liberals that helped carry it to power) missed is that previous administrations were very reserved in their diplomacy with Iran because they understood the nature of the leaders in Iran. Previous administrations knew that Iran is an extremist, terrorist supporting nation; they understood Iran’s intentions. This adminstration is now finding out why previous administrations did not extend a warm, open hand of friendship. It is not that the Obama administration didn’t have all the facts; the problem is one of philosophy. The Obama administration believes that all evil acts of other countries are a reaction to evil actions of the United States. Most reasonable people understand that there are evil people and evil nations in the world, driven by internal (not external) motivators, and that someone has to stand up to them. Whether that be by military force or by strong speech.

From: Breitbart.com (Jan 31, 2010)

US President Barack Obama's offer to talk to Iran shows that America's policy of "domination" has failed, the (Iranian) government spokesman said on Saturday.

"This request means Western ideology has become passive, that capitalist thought and the system of domination have failed," Gholam Hossein Elham was quoted as saying by the Mehr news agency.

"Negotiation is secondary, the main issue is that there is no way but for (the United States) to change," he added.

This illustrates why previous administrations have withdrawn negotiations with Iran; Iran’s position is that we must change 180 degrees and align with their way of thinking. Either Obama is too naïve to see this, or he wants to change our philosophy to align with Iran’s. Either option is disturbing and dangerous.

Barack Obama wants to make it possible for gays to serve openly in the US military, yet he has nothing to say about a country that hangs homosexuals for being homosexuals. He had nothing to say (until political pressure forced a response) about protestors in Iran being injured and killed for speaking their minds. He wants to extend an open hand to that nation and sit down and have a chat with their radical anti-Semitic leader. When policemen from Cambridge, MA arrested a black professor who appeared to be breaking into a home, President Obama weighed in on the situation immediately, even though (in his own words) he didn’t know all the facts. Said President Obama, “I don’t know the facts, but the Cambridge police acted stupidly.” Apparently, it is okay to talk about ridding the earth of Jews, but if there is even an apparent hint of discriminating against a black man; President Obama will step in and let us know how he feels.

Our president needs to drop his ideology, and open his eyes and see the world the way it is. He needs to start saying and doing the right things, not what will please the political correctness police or the radical left in this country.

To borrow from Obama’s own playbook, “I don’t have all the facts, and I am not an expert on foreign policy, but in regards to Iran - President Obama has acted stupidly.”
Email ItEmail It | Print ItPrint It | CommentsComments (0) | TrackbacksTrackbacks (0) | Flag as offensiveFlag as Offensive

Health Care Reform

 

With the results of the special senate election in Massachusetts, the current health care reform bill is probably dead. We are certain to hear attacks from the radical left: “Conservatives don’t want health care reform”, “Conservatives are satisfied with the status quo”, "Conservatives want people to die in the street". This is one conservative who is NOT satisfied with the current health care system in this country. I just don’t want the “health care reform” bill that the Democrats have been trying to push through. A "health care reform" bill that will increase our debt, give special favors to certain groups and politicians, and won't ensure health care for all is not the kind of change I want to see.

You hear from the liberal media that conservatives have not offered any solutions to health care reform. That is an outright lie: there have been many proposals put forth by conservatives. The truth is that Democrats in congress have completely ignored Republicans and refused to include them in discussions (because from the beginning the Democrats knew they had a majority and didn’t need any Republican votes to pass their bill). Perhaps the Democrats will include the Republicans in negotiations now.

 

Emergency health care is already available to all. Legally, hospitals cannot turn down an individual needing emergency treatment for any reason (including an inability to pay). Doctors and nurses, for the most part, are compassionate people and wouldn't turn anyone away even if it were legal. So no one is dying in the street because they lack health care insurance (that is a lie propagated by some individuals to argue their case for universal health care). When I had cancer in 2000, I had no health care insurance. Thanks to a Catholic Hospital, and a state program in Florida, I came out of a long battle with cancer owing just a couple thousand dollars in medical bills.

 

1        I did not have health care insurance.

2        I was not denied care and left to die in the street.

3        I was not relegated to financial ruin.

 

Health care insurance is not a constitutionally guaranteed right; it is not a civil right. Health care insurance is a service, and it is a choice for many people. All senior citizens are guaranteed health care insurance. All people under a certain income are guaranteed health care insurance. That just leaves citizens under the age of 65, who make more than a certain income (a figure the government sets), and whose job doesn’t provide health care insurance, without health care insurance. The vast majority of the people who “can’t afford” health care insurance are making a choice to "not afford" it.

1        Do they have a cell phone? How much do they pay per month?

2        Do they have cable or satellite TV? How much do they pay per month?

3        Do they smoke or drink? How much do they spend per month?

4        Do they go out to eat or to clubs often? How much do they spend per month?

5        Have they eliminated everything from their budget that is not a (true) necessity?  

I am not judging these individuals for having these luxuries (we all have things in our lives we don’t need), but the point is: they are making the personal choice to have these things instead of health care insurance. Furthermore, using taxpayer dollars to pay for health care insurance for these individuals is tantamount to paying for the luxuries in their life: their cell phone, TV, cigarettes and/or alcohol, night life. Individuals should have the freedom to choose these things, but the fruit of other people’s labor should not be stolen to pay for them.

 

So what do we do to reform health care in America? I’m glad you asked. Here are a few ideas from a common citizen.

 

Changes to Current Health Care 

  • Tort Reform. Let’s get this one out of the way first. Why? Because most people agree that this one (which would actually help lower costs) won’t ever happen. Whether things are as sinister as the movie “The Firm” (where anyone opposing these greedy lawyers will end up becoming shark food in the Cayman Islands), or because most politicians get big payoffs from trial lawyers; I don’t see tort reform happening. Therefore, doctors will still have to pay HUGE malpractice insurance premiums; and doctors will continue to order unnecessary tests to cover their butts in case of a lawsuit. President Obama promised things would be different if he were elected president. He promised an end to “business as usual” in Washington. Why doesn’t President Obama demand that tort reform be included in any health care reform legislation?

 

  • Portability. Do not allow health care plans to be tied to employers. You should be able to take your health care insurance with you when you leave a job (while continuing to pay the same premium: like car insurance). Anyone who has ever lost a job knows that the Cobra option is a joke. How is someone supposed to pay over a thousand dollars a month for health care insurance when they just lost their job? If health care insurance were not tied to employers, people would be free to choose the health care plan they want.

 

  • Pre-existing conditions: there should be some allowance for someone with a pre-existing condition to get health care insurance. Of course, a higher premium (and possibly deductible) would be appropriate, since there is an implied cost of care going in, but it should no be so high as to be prohibitive.

 

  • No restrictions along state lines. People should be able to shop for health care insurance without limitation: this would lower cost through competition.

 

  • There should absolutely be no taxes on health care plans (whether you belong to a union or not).

 

  • No requirement to carry health insurance. This is one issue which rankles more people than any other issue. This sounds like something from 20th century communist Russia. No unconstitutional laws requiring health care insurance. No penalty or tax on individuals who do not carry health insurance.

 

  • We need changes to FDA regulations regarding alternative/holistic drugs and treatments. As someone who almost died from cancer (more specifically the chemotherapy used to treat cancer), but then turned to an alternative treatment and is alive and well nine years later, I believe there needs to be a loosening of the restrictions on alternative treatments. Let the individual decide how they want to treat their illness. I funny it curious that chemotherapy (which poisons the body) is just fine with the FDA, but alternative methods that don’t poison the body are not allowed.

 

 

I would say there are very few people in this country who believe the current state of health care is acceptable. Most of us agree there need to be changes. However, that does not mean that we need to send our country deeper into debt and invoke massive federal government expansion. It is true that the rising cost of health care needs to be addressed. The current proposed legislation does not address the rising costs of health care; in fact some argue that it will contribute to rising costs. The current proposed legislation does not guarantee coverage to everyone. Wasn’t that the point? The current proposed legislation strips citizens of basic freedom, gives special favors in order to garner votes, fails to insure all citizens, and adds a trillion dollars to our national debt (that is just the estimate, wait until reality kicks in and we see the actual impact).

To quote Senator-elect Scott Brown, “We can do better!”

Email ItEmail It | Print ItPrint It | CommentsComments (1) | TrackbacksTrackbacks (0) | Flag as offensiveFlag as Offensive

An Oppressive Government

There are a couple of recent stories that have prompted these thoughts and observations. Of course there are many similar stories happening across this land every day, but these two really caught my attention. Partly because I am a parent, and partly because I have worked closely with state family and children services (having worked in the teen residential group home field for years).
One story occurred in Arizona. A couple’s three daughters (ages 5, 4 and 1 ½) were taken from them by Child Protective Services. The offense? A Wal-Mart employee’s report that there were pictures of the girls in the bath that showed partial views of their private parts. These images were on a memory stick that had been dropped off so that pictures could be printed off.
The other story, more recent, occurred in Georgia. This time, these unbelievable ogres of parents (read sarcasm here) had the audacity to make small tattoos of crosses on their children’s hand. While the children were originally removed from the home, they are now back with the parents until the case goes to court. The mother claims that the tattoos only go into the first layer of skin and therefore are not permanent.
What has this country come to? Should we really have a state entity with the unlimited power to seize children at any time at their own discretion? While I think it is necessary to have provisions in place to protect children in extreme circumstances, do we really want the state having this absolute power over OUR children? The problem here is that this is a slippery slope. In the first case you could argue that parents should be very careful about taking compromising pictures of their children, especially in this time of rampant perversion and evil. In the second case, you could argue that we can’t have people marking their children’s bodies, even if the children want it. (I wonder, would those tyrants, err, I mean child protective officers, have objected if the tattoos were of “Twilight“ or “Harry Potter“ characters? Hmm.) But what is next? What if your children object to going to church, and the neighbor overhears and reports you? Do you want some state officer coming and taking your children from you because you are taking them to church against their will, poisoning their minds (remember, it’s all up to the discretion of this Gestapo-like official)? What if Universal Health Care is implemented, and to control costs of health care, healthier eating practices become recommended (mandated)? Do you want someone coming into your house and taking your children because you had the unmitigated gall to let your kids have cookies or ice cream. This all may sound fantastic, but it is very possible.  In the case of the little girls in the shower, are you telling me the state officers couldn’t have examined the pictures, talked the parents, used some judgment before ripping these kids from their parents? Was this not a knee-jerk reaction? We should have safeguards in place so that this cannot happen.
What would the founding father have done, if this sort of thing had happened in their time. For anyone who has seen the terrific miniseries, “John Adams”, what do think John Adams would have done if his kids were taken from him because some British official objected to a painting of his daughter? What would Abigail have done?
We have drifted far away from the republic our founders set up (in breaking away from a  tyrannical government not completely unlike what we are living under today). There is a lot of talk these days about the fear that we are drifting towards socialism. There is talk that we need to nip it in the bud; that we need to stem this tide and stop the creep towards socialism. Well, we’re almost there already. We don’t need to stem the tide, we need to reverse it. We need an all out strategy to strip away most of the big government that we have allowed to evolve. The problem is that it didn’t happen in one fell swoop overnight. It happened bit by bit, over many years. And we let it happen. We let it happen by not standing up and objecting to every step.
Used to be, when I read the following quote by George Washington, I thought he was referring to the past (his past). 

 “The marvel of all history is the patience with which men and women submit to burdens unnecessarily laid upon them by their governments”,

I now believe that he was referring to the shackles that people were already accepting, so soon after breaking free from Great Britain. The funny thing is, while the people hated having a king tell them what they could or couldn’t do, most people are uncomfortable being solely responsible for their own security and welfare. Most people want the government to take care of them and are willing to sacrifice just about anything to have that security. Historically it seems, civilizations go through this cycle. They continue to yield more and more power to the state, until they become subject to absolute despotism. Then after some measure of time, when people become fed up enough with living in fear and bondage, the people revolt, overthrow their tyrants, and establish a new government. And the whole process begins anew. 
There seems to be a growing resistance to this oppressive government. Maybe that American Spirit that has been passed down from the founding fathers will encourage people to fight this march to socialism. Perhaps we will see a refounding of this nation, and it will be better than it ever was. Sadly, this disintegration will probably continue. And in some distant future history classroom, kids will learn about this period in history. They will learn that these were the last days of the United States of America. They will learn about how the United States eventually lapsed into complete tyranny, and many years later, after much misery and contempt, there was a bloody revolt, and a new America was established.

  • He(They) has called together legislative bodies at places (times) unusual, uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their Public Records, for the sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures.

  • For imposing Taxes on us without our Consent

  • He(They) has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harass our people and eat out their substance.

Are these observations on the current state of affairs? No, these are excerpts from the Declaration of Independence. Are we like George Washington said, going to patiently submit to these burdens? Or is the America Spirit going to rise up and, like Thomas Jefferson, “swear upon the altar of God eternal hostility against every form of tyranny over the mind of man”?

Email ItEmail It | Print ItPrint It | CommentsComments (0) | TrackbacksTrackbacks (0) | Flag as offensiveFlag as Offensive

In 2010 I Resolve To ...

As 2009 fades into the past, and a new year comes upon us,  it is time for that annual tradition: New Year’s Resolutions. Everyone makes their list of things they want to change: things they want to start doing, or stop doing. Some people resolve to lose weight. Some people resolve to stop smoking. Each of has that thing (or things) that we want to change in our life, yet never seem to be able to. So we make a “New Year’s Resolution(s)”. Now we’ll finally lose that weight, or stop smoking, because we have made a resolution(s). Sometimes we make it for months, other times we stumble in the first week of the new year, but inevitably, we fail to follow through on our resolution(s). We are left frustrated; feeling like a failure. We go on with life as before and file away that resolution for another year.
 
Why do we only make resolutions at the start of a new year? Is it because the start of a new year makes us think of new beginnings, a fresh start? Or is it just “the thing to do”? Everyone is talking about their New Year’s Resolutions so we feel obligated to make our own list. Perhaps it is a combination of the two. But why make a list of New Year’s Resolutions if we know that it is futile? Some people are dogged in their determination: even though they have tried and failed, they still make New Year’s Resolutions every year. Personally, I gave up making New Year’s Resolutions years ago, because I grew tired of the folly of making a list I knew that I could not follow through on.
 
Why is it that our New Year’s Resolutions never seem to stick? Perhaps it is because they don’t really come from the heart. We are only making our list because it is the thing to do. Everyone is making a list, so I have to make one. What if, on July 1st, you come to the conclusion that you need to lose weight. If you realize that if you don’t get into shape, you might not live to see 40 (or 50, or whatever), why not make your resolution then and there and act on it. That is the key, rather than having an epiphany and taking action, we are given a form and told to fill in the blanks. So we oblige with a list of things we want to change, and we resolve to make those changes in our life.
We have it backwards. We need to make a resolution when we become aware of the need to change, not when someone else (or a certain time of year) tells us to come up with one.
 
You can have your New Year’s Resolutions, but as for me, I resolve to refuse to make a list of New Year’s Resolutions. I resolve that when I come to the realization that something in my life needs to change, I will resolve then and there to start to change it. Life is too short to put off our resolutions until the next New Year.
Email ItEmail It | Print ItPrint It | CommentsComments (0) | TrackbacksTrackbacks (0) | Flag as offensiveFlag as Offensive

Live in the Moment

In the first Star Wars movie, “Episode IV”, Yoda makes the following remark about the young Luke Skywalker, “All his life has he looked away… to the future, to the horizon. Never his mind on where he was. Hmm? What he was doing. Hmph. Adventure. Heh. Excitement. Heh.”.

Doesn’t that describe most of us? Time travel movies, psychics, even the Weather Channel bear this out. We look to the future for adventure, excitement; those things that our lives lack. We are bored with our lives, so we look to the future and imagine what it might hold. Maybe we’ll win the lottery and retire in style. The single person imagines meeting that perfect mate, getting married and living happily ever after. (Unfortunately, some married people do this as well.) The disgruntled worker dreams about getting that perfect job that will make him happy.

I often complain to my wife (much to her dismay) about the Weather Channel and their forecasts. I wonder why the Weather Channel is so popular and successful when they are wrong so much of the time. Is it because of our desire to know the future? We want to know what the weather is going to be like next week. Will we have snow? How much? Is it going to rain the day I want to play golf? It doesn’t matter how often they are wrong, we still go back looking for our local forecast. As late as Wednesday (the week before Christmas), here in western North Carolina, they were calling for a rain/snow mix on Friday, nothing to get excited about. By Saturday morning we had 14 inches of snow. It’s a good thing I didn’t make plans based on their forecast.

One of the most sure-fire formulas for a movie premise is time travel. You can have bad actors, poor production quality and cheesy special effects, but if the story is about time travel, people will watch. People love the idea of being able to know the future (or going back to the past and changing things so that they will have a different present). There have been many movies made about time travel, but one of my favorites is an independent film you may not have heard of. The movie is called “Primer”. “Primer” was made by a first time, independent film maker, on a budget of $7000; yet it is one of the most imaginative, well made movies I have seen. Basically, it is about two engineers who invent a time machine by accident while trying to invent a marketable electronic device. While the movie is interesting on many levels, perhaps the most intriguing aspect is the portrayal of the two main characters and how they react to this newfound power. In this movie, the time travelers are not able to travel into the future, but they are able to go back in time (as long as their machine has been running) and essentially alter their present until they get it right. (Reliving each day, or several days if the machine has been on that long.) As you might expect, this has progressively more disastrous results. As things unravel, one character recognizes the folly of controlling one’s future (playing God if you will) and opts out, while the other character continues on this path, thinking he will eventually “get it right”.

I think the lesson to be learned here is that we aren’t supposed to know what happens next. We are supposed to live in the moment. Learn from past mistakes (as well as successes)? Yes. Establish goals and dreams and work hard to achieve them? Yes. But leave the rest up to the One who hung the stars and created life. Jesus said, “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for today is its own trouble.”

We all want to be prescient: we want to know where we are going, what life holds in store for us. Sometimes we get so preoccupied with that focus that we forget to live in the moment. Life passes us by while we dwell on what we will be doing tomorrow, or next week, or next year. While it may seem very strange, I think the time in my life when I was most focused on living in the moment was when I had cancer. I did not know what my future held (only God knew), and I was too immersed in the present to dwell on the past. Each day I was completely absorbed with that day: my treatment, my wife, my son. I didn’t make a conscious decision to live in the moment, I feel like my situation forced me to do that. Or maybe it was God’s grace, freeing me from worries while I went through that ordeal. Whatever the reason, there was a real peace in my heart as I completely trusted God and just lived in the moment. I think we would all do well to live in the moment at all times. Enjoy your family, your friends, your job; enjoy today, tomorrow will worry about itself.

Email ItEmail It | Print ItPrint It | CommentsComments (0) | TrackbacksTrackbacks (0) | Flag as offensiveFlag as Offensive

Why Oh Why Didn’t I Take The Blue Pill?

For those of you who missed “The Matrix” or didn’t understand it, let me explain. Okay, most of us didn’t fully understand The Matrix, but I’m referring to the scene where Morpheus offers two pills to Neo. One pill, the blue pill, will allow Neo to return to his life as was, with no knowledge of the truth or their meeting. He will be completely oblivious to the truth and his close brush with enlightenment. Neo will go back to his life as a computer programmer and producer of black market computer programs. The other pill, the red pill, will remove Neo from the matrix and allow him to see things as they really are. Neo will be able to see and understand the matrix. Neo will know the truth. The catch? Once he takes the red pill, Neo cannot go back to life as he knew it.

In this analogy, the blue pill refers to the state of mind that congress and big government is honorable and forthright and really cares about the best interests of the people. In this scenario, one believes, that with the rare exception, representatives and senators are statesmen who have integrity and  seek to serve the people. We can trust them to run our country and be immune to temptation and evil. These men refuse to have their vote and their influence bought off with money and power. We live in a utopian society where we are free to live, be free, and pursue happiness.

The red pill refers to the state of mind where one has become cognizant of the reality of Washington D.C. Or as Mike Church likes to call it, “Mordor on the Potomac” (Mordor being that fictional land in J.R.R. Tolkien’s trilogy, “Lord of the Rings”. The word has two meanings from Tolkien’s two elf languages, “Black Land” and “Land of Shadow”. Possibly a bit of hyperbole in referring to Washington, but the more I become aware of the corruption of these people, the more apropos it seems.) In this scenario, one realizes that the vast majority of congressmen are corrupt and greedy and care little about what is right. Whether they were like that when they ran for office, or a spell came over them when they crossed the Potomac, it is undeniable that they do not have the best interests of the people at heart. For some, greed motivates them. For others, their driving motivation is keeping their position, and all the perks that go with it. They will do whatever will keep them in Washington, the will and welfare of the people be damned. For still others, their power and influence gives them the opportunity and wherewithal to indulge in all their basest lusts. 

Therefore, having been enlightened about the truth, what do we do now? Do we hold tea parties and rallies and let our representatives know how we feel? While that has some effect, those who take such action are hindered by two things. One, a media that is seems to be in the tank for the current congress and administration. Anyone who protests what Washington is doing is labeled racist and/or a tea bagging redneck. The other stumbling block is the fact that most congressmen have this elitist mentality that deludes them into thinking that they are smarter and wiser than any of their constituents. They know what you need, even if you don’t. And they are going to ram it down your throat, even if you tell them not to. After all, they are a Lord over you, right? No? They work for you? Somebody needs to let them know. Do we run for office ourselves? Is it possible to get elected without the connections and finances that these people possess? If we are able to get elected, will we fall victim to the spell of the Potomac once we cross over into Mordor on the Potomac? Or do we try to put it out of our minds, make the best of our lives, and just comfort ourselves with the knowledge that God has it all under control. Maybe we should just build a bonfire, gather round and hold hands, and sing “He’s got the whole world in His hands”.

Why oh why didn’t I take the blue pill?!

Email ItEmail It | Print ItPrint It | CommentsComments (0) | TrackbacksTrackbacks (0) | Flag as offensiveFlag as Offensive

It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year

At least that is what the song says. It's the holiday season. Years ago this comprised Thanksgiving, through Christmas, ending with New Year's. Now it's all about Christmas, and the secular aspect of it to boot. The word Christmas, comes from the old English, and literally means “Christ's Mass”. Christmas celebrates the birth of Jesus Christ the Messiah. But for most, Christmas is only about lights and snowmen and trees. And gifts, more shopping takes place during this time of year than any other. 
Once upon a time, it was taboo to put out Christmas decorations or play Christmas carols before Thanksgiving. Now, stores start putting out Christmas items in October; and radio stations start playing Christmas carols in early November. Thanksgiving has largely become a forgotten holiday. We are too anxious for Christmas to get here to stop and give thanks.
So with all this focus on the festive time of Christmas; and thoughts of Santa and Frosty and Christmas lights; everyone should be full of joy, right? That's what one would think, but my observations tell a different story. I was shopping at our local Stuff Mart the other day to do my part to support the Chinese economy, and I was struck by the endless parade of miserable faces. And this seems to be a recurring phenomenon. Of course, everyone has a bad day now and then: but that could not explain what I witnessed. The odds of everyone having their bad day on the same day and that being on the day I crossed their path; well I would need to consult Dr. Charles Epps for the answer to that (reference to the TV show Numb3rs). Maybe it's the economy you may say; perhaps they are among the unemployed. While it can be tough to be unemployed, especially at this time of year (I know, I became unemployed at Thanksgiving), that alone should not make a person miserable. Maybe those people need to read my previous blog on counting your blessings.
Perhaps, all this focus on Santa and Frosty and lights and decorations is the reason for the malaise. While all these things are fun and a part of our Christmas celebration, they are not the reason for the season. Santa cannot give you peace or joy when you lose your job. Frosty cannot comfort you when the doctor tells you it's cancer. All the Christmas lights in the world can't illuminate a soul that is dark and lost.
Enjoy that Christmas Dinner, have some eggnog, sing some Christmas carols. Celebrate Frosty and Santa and Rudolph; just don't forget the reason for the season:

Do not be afraid, for behold I bring you tidings of great joy which will be to all people.
For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.
Email ItEmail It | Print ItPrint It | CommentsComments (0) | TrackbacksTrackbacks (0) | Flag as offensiveFlag as Offensive

Count Your Blessings

 
   Count your blessings. I know it is a cliché, and especially at this time of year, but it probably bears repeating at this time of year more than any other. Unless you have been living in a cave for the last 30 years, you're aware that the suicide rate is very high during the holiday season. The reasons for this are probably many, but for the most part, people think that their life is lacking in comparison to other's lives. People who are alone in their life, become more acutely aware of that solitude during the holidays. Everyone else (it seems) has a family and big plans to gather with extended family for a joyous Christmas celebration. The lonely person is only looking forward to a canned ham, a bottle of wine, and “It's a Wonderful Life” on TV. They will probably skip “It's a Wonderful Life” though, either because it hits to close to home, or the ending seems too unreal. I can relate to that person, because even though I have a beautiful family now (a lovely wife, Linda and 10 year old son, Daniel), I spent many Christmases all alone.
   This Christmas we are counting our blessings. I have a wonderful wife and the best little boy in the world. We are unemployed, but we are freed from a stressful situation, working with troubled teenagers and working for an inept organization. Since part of the compensation for that job was an attached apartment, we were essentially made homeless. However, a friend from church is letting us use her cozy two bedroom cabin in the foothills until we get back on our feet. We have a wood burning stove, all the wood we can burn, and all the peace and quiet we can stand. The cabin is an enchanting retreat in the woods, and a blessing (both from God and our friend at church). Our 11 month old crazy ball of fur Golden Retriever, also known as Johnny Bud, is in dog heaven. He has acres of woods to explore, and several dogs in the neighborhood to explore and play with.
   Because of our employment situation, we don't have a lot of money to spend on Christmas, but we have each other, our health, and our God. He has said He is our provider, and He will never leave us nor forsake us. I believe that counting your blessing is a choice. We are making the choice to count our blessings.
   I am reminded of a Christmas season a few years ago (nine to be exact), that would give a person a reason to complain, if ever there was one. I was six months into treatment for cancer, and things weren't going well. I had an open lung biopsy (my second in six months) to confirm if it was still cancer in my lungs. I expired on the operating table and had to be revived. The biopsy revealed it was still cancer. I spent 21 of 31 days that December in a hospital room. It was looking like that would be my last Christmas. We didn't have much money for Christmas, couldn't travel or host family in our home, some would say we didn't have any blessing to count. Though my condition was grave, I was able to talk my doctor into letting me go home on the 24th, and come back into the hospital the morning of the 26th
   I was still alive; I got to spend Christmas at home with Linda and Daniel (22 months old at the time) and our 6 year-old Golden Retriever Dusty; We had a tree, a few presents, food on the table, and a roof over our heads. And we had our God who will never leave us nor forsake us. We chose to count our blessings.
   Counting your blessings is a choice; it is up to you whether you count your blessings or moan and complain. Some people would say, “but you don't know my situation.” While that is true, there is always someone who is in worse shape than you are. And the truth, the secret, to all of this is: complaining about your situation won't change your situation. Counting your blessings won't necessarily change your situation either (though some would argue it will, power of positive thinking and all that), but counting your blessings will improve your attitude and feelings. You can be in the situation you're in and be miserable and bitter; or you can be in the situation you're in and be happy and content. The choice is yours.
   You always have blessings you can count. It's up to you.
 
You may be wondering what is the rest of the story in regards to my cancer. It is a long story, and to get it all you'll have to buy the book (yes there is one coming). To make a long story short, I had to turn to an alternative treatment, but here I am 9 years later, alive and doing well.
 
 
Email ItEmail It | Print ItPrint It | CommentsComments (0) | TrackbacksTrackbacks (0) | Flag as offensiveFlag as Offensive

Let it Snow Let it Snow Let it Snow

Is there anything more beautiful than softly falling snow? Or a drab, bland landscape of dormant trees and grey tones transformed into a winter wonderland covered in a blanket of white? Personally, I can’t get enough of the white stuff. We lived in Maine for 4 years, and nearly every year the ground was covered in a mantle of white from December until March. One year, the snow banks on the side the street (from the plows) reached about 4 feet high. I went cross country skiing, played in it with my son, had a little fun in our Ford Bronco. We had snowball fights and built snow forts. 
I just don’t understand some people’s bitter reaction to snow. I know driving in the snow can be treacherous and there is the shoveling and the accompanying cold weather, but you have to take the bad with the good. Everything in this life comes with drawbacks. Even the most ideal job has tasks that no one likes. The most perfect marriage has its share of rough spots.  I suffered through  Fox’s 24 last year in spite of the incredibly offensive Janeane Garafalo. In my humble opinion, the positives associated with snow far outweigh the negatives. Is there anything in this life more satisfying than coming in from the snow, shaking the fluffy white stuff off your boots, and sitting down in front of a fire with a cup of hot chocolate or a hot toddy?
If I had to choose between 12 months of hot humid weather, or 12 months of snowy weather, it would be a no-brainer. From the sunlight glistening off the snow, creating imaginary diamonds, to the infinite perspective created at night from the light bouncing off the white snow, it is almost magical. To my ears, the cries of “Ugh, I hate snow” are akin to “Bah Humbug” at Christmas time. If you don’t like the snow, keep it to yourself, or move to Florida.
Tags: Snow Winter  
Email ItEmail It | Print ItPrint It | CommentsComments (0) | TrackbacksTrackbacks (0) | Flag as offensiveFlag as Offensive

Why the family is so important to all of us

 

Let me say first that I am not condemning anyone who is divorced, and I know that divorce will continue to happen. These are just my observations on the issue of divorce and it's consequences. While I can't say what the divorce rate is and whether it is on the rise or decline (divorce statistics are harder to find than a positive review of a Ben Affleck movie), it is safe to say that divorce remains a major problem in this country. My observation on this issue is not about the ethics or morality of divorce, but it's effects on the children, and by association, it's effects on all of us (as it effects society).

The following is a commentary by Alexis de Tocqueville about American public life (in comparison to European public life, circa 1835). His comments are very interesting.

 "Agitated by the tumultuous passions which frequently disturb his dwelling, the European is galled by the obedience which the legislative powers of the State exact. But when the American retires from the turmoil of public life to the bosom of his family, he finds in it the image of order and of peace. There his pleasures are simple and natural, his joys are innocent and calm; and as he finds that an orderly life is the surest path to happiness, he accustoms himself without difficulty to moderate his opinions as well as his tastes. Whilst the European endeavors to forget his domestic troubles by agitating society, the American derives from his own home that love of order which he afterwards carries with him into public affairs."


It would be reasonable to substitute "home marred by divorce" for "European", and "home not marred by divorce" for American, in regards to the above commentary.
"the (child from a home marred by divorce) endeavors to forget his domestic troubles by agitating society"
The contrast is stark. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that youth from a stable home are going to be better behaved than youth from a home that is racked with strife. But the point is that a stable home is just one where mom and dad are there, committed to one another, committed to their children. It doesn't have to be Ward and June Cleaver (from "Leave it to Beaver"). It doesn have to be perfecct. Having worked with troubled youth and their families for nearly 20 years, I think I can comment with some degree of credibility on this issue. The vast majority of teens we have worked with that are "troubled", juvenile offenders, struggling in school, come from broken homes. There have been scant few troubled teens that have come from a home where the original mom and dad are still together and in the home. These kids either live in a single-parent household, or they live with mom and the live-in boyfriend-of-the-month. Of course my experience is not exhaustive (I have not worked with every single troubled teen), but it is a valid sample.

We have even worked with youth, whose parents were together, but in and out of separation/talking of divorce. These youth would do well when mom and dad were working it out and together, but when mom and dad would separate or things would get heated, the youth would struggle. Then, when mom and dad would start to work things out again, the youth would exhibit positive behaviors. The effects of the tranquility of the home on the children cannot be overstated. Of course all couples have good days and bad days, and no marriage is going to be like a fairy tale, but a home where mom and dad are present and committed to staying together is always better than a broken home. Kids get their sense of self from their family. If their family is fractured, they feel it. Kids need that sense of wholeness in their home as a base for them to discover who they are. Lawyers and Psychologists will tell parents, “the kids will be okay, kids are resilient, they're better off in a broken home than one where the parents fight all the time”. I have heard people who got divorced say they regret listening to that kind of advice. Kids are always (99% of the time) better off with mom and dad together.

Marriage is not an easy thing. If it were, the vows would say "for better, richer, and in health, I will stay with you". But that's not the way the vows read, is it? "For better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health....til death do us part".


I think part of the problem is expectations. People have unrealistic expectations of marriage in a lot of cases.
I am reminded of a Don Henley song (End of the Innocence), where he says,

And happily ever after fails,

and we've been poisoned by these fairy tales,

the lawyers dwell on small details,

since daddy had to fly”

I think what he is saying is that people listen to songs or watch romantic movies (fairy tales) and get this impression that when they fall in love and get married, they will live in this fairy tale of bliss and harmony. Then, when they find out that real life is not like that, they give up, assuming that they just married the wrong person. People need to go into marriage with the right perspective and expectations. People need to realize going into marriage that it takes work, commitment, and a willingness to forgive one another. I think if public schools spent time educating kids about marriage and responsibility (instead of how to have sex), our society would be much better off (but don't get me started on that soap box). (This could be done without teaching from a religious perspective)

Another factor contributing to the divorce rate is the fact that people are so mobile anymore (moving from place to place), that they no longer have the parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles nearby to counsel them when they begin to have marital problems. The advice of an older person who has been there, experienced tough times (but worked it out and can honestly tell them that it is worth the effort to make their marriage work) is priceless. That is something most of don't have any longer. Without the advice and modeling of family, people are left to take their cue from others in their community, tv, movies. And in these cases people are inundated with the message "Everyone is getting divorced, you might as well get divorced too."
This commentary is not about the morality of divorce, but the destructive effects that we all feel. From troublemakers in school, to juvenile offenders, to adult crimes, so many of the things that disrupt us from enjoying life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness could be reduced simply by repairing the family unit. So many of the ills of our society could be cured simply by returning to a commitment to family..."til death do us part".
 
"when _________ retires from the turmoil of public life to the bosom of his family, he finds in it the image of order and of peace"


Email ItEmail It | Print ItPrint It | CommentsComments (0) | TrackbacksTrackbacks (0) | Flag as offensiveFlag as Offensive

Can we keep this Republic?

More than any other time of year, this is when we reflect on the birth of this great (once great?) nation. July 4th marks the anniversary of the Declaration of Independence. The most amazing document in the history of man. While it is an overused phrase, the founding fathers would roll over in their graves if they knew what people have done to the republic they created. Then again, they (much more than most in this generation) understood human behavior. Someone asked Benjamin Franklin (after the constitution was drawn up)Well Doctor, what have we got, a republic or a monarchy?" "A republic if you can keep it" responded Franklin.
And this is NOT, a democrat problem or a republican problem, it is a result of corrupt politicians, people who have not been educated adequately in the heritage of this nation, and......human nature. Congress, and presidents (past and current) have overstepped their constitutional authority and done things, that while they may have seemed like "good things" to do, were in principle, WRONG!
Alexander Tytler, a Scottish-born British lawyer and writer, wrote about the phases a democracy usually goes through, and it usually ends, after about 200 years, in bondage such as a dictatorship.
 
Tytler listed the phases as follows (source wikipedia)
 
  • From bondage to spiritual faith;
  • From spiritual faith to great courage;
  • From courage to liberty;
  • From liberty to abundance;
  • From abundance to complacency;
  • From complacency to apathy;
  • From apathy to dependence;
  • From dependence back into bondage.
     
  • Now of course, this is the opinion of a man, based on his study of history, and is therefore not exhaustive nor absolute truth, but it is useful for discussion. Going by this list of progression, I would say we are somewhere in the "apathy to dependence" phase. With all of our accomplishments in the 20th century we became complacent. That has been followed in the last 30 years with a march toward apathy. People have come to the place where most feel their vote doesn't count and the representatives don't listen to their voice. We are at a critical juncture in our history. We can beat this "inevitable?" progression to bondage, and it appears that many people are ready to rise to the challenge. The Tax Day Tea Parties are evidence of that. Despite the efforts of the lunatic left wing fringe on some networks to discredit good people getting out and making their voice heard, these tea parties have stirred (or shown evidence of an already existing stirring of) that indomitable American spirit that is unique in the history of human government. People are meeting all across this nation to find ways to change the course of this nation, and help stave off tyranny. Some states have starting passing gun legislation and daring the federal government to overstep it's constitutional limits to undo the legislation. Some states have talked about secession. Let's hope it doesn't come to that, but I think there needs to be a willingness to take that direction if the federal government refuses to stay within the constitution. I don't think anyone wants a violent revolt, most people just want this government to be once again, "a government of the people, by the people, and for the people".
     
    Let's hope that Lincoln was right, and this wasn't just wishful thinking:
     
    "and that government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the earth. "
     
     
  • Email ItEmail It | Print ItPrint It | CommentsComments (1) | TrackbacksTrackbacks (0) | Flag as offensiveFlag as Offensive
    « Previous1Next »